Boss That Pu$$y Up

What’s the last straw, nail that sealed the coffin shut, or the straw that broke the camel's back in a relationship for you?? If you have met me 20 years ago, you would have said "that bitch is crazy." I have put up with so much bullshit in my relationships it is pathetic. As the years went by, I’ve gotten older, and developed  less tolerance for bullshit and aggravation. I came up with 10 deal breakers when in a relationship, or just meeting a new man 1.      Starting off the relationship with a lie: I cannot stand a man who cannot tell the truth. If he lies about the little things, what else is he hiding? 2.      Jobless: Now I know our economy is a piece of shit, but a man with no job is like oil to my water, we won’t mix. I am not signing up to help him financially in any way. I am not about to have a man sponge off of me point, blank, period. 3.      Cheating:A man who's wife or girlfriend left him because he cheated. This is a red flag. If he cheate

I know when your woman’s intuition kicks in; something about your man doesn’t feel right. You feel the burn in the pit of your stomach. Something is telling you that the cold hand of infidelity is wrapped around your man’s dick. However, feeling and knowing are two different things. When you receive the confirmation that your man is cheating, or you catch him in the act, the devastation slams you on the head like a sledge hammer. You’re plagued with all kinds of emotion, your heart becomes the play ground for tug of war. You don’t know what way to go. Your first reaction is to go after the other woman. This is where you go wrong. Going after the other woman will not solve the problem. What You Should (DO) 1. When you are absolutely sure that he is cheating, I know you’re going to hit the roof. But don’t fear. Try to remain calm, and clear your mind, and get your thoughts together. 2. Pack you things and go to a friend’s or a relative’s house for a while so that you can put thi

As a woman I have always asked myself why girls and women are so catty and jealous of one another. I think it is in our nature to be competitive. I know when I started high school, I was never considered the “pretty one” in fact I was always over shadowed by the “prettier girls”. When I saw pretty girls, or even girls that dressed better than I did, I automatically disliked them. I never acted out my “hateration” because I was very soft spoken, but I secretly loathed them. I have always had a soft heart so I was never vicious with my jealously. When the green eyed monster rears its ugly head, women can become very viscous and spiteful. As I have gotten older, I have learned to control this green eyed monster. My jealousy towards other women is better controlled now, than when I was younger. I have developed a system to tame the green eyed enemy. If you have a strong mind, this should work for you. THE GREEN EYED MONSTER 1. Stop worrying about what someone else has. Be thankful

I've said this before, and I'll say this again. Ladies you can’t do what the guys do, and still be a lady. This phrase rings so true. If your man cheated on you, you're either going to forgive and forget, or you’re going to leave him. Revenge sex is the worst thing you can do to get back at your man. I'm going to tell you why. You're degrading yourself, and lowering yourself down to hoe status. If you insist on getting revenge on your man by having sex with another man, I suggest you think about the consequences before you go to the next step. Women who cheat have an increased chance of becoming pregnant. What man is going to stay with you, and raise another man’s child? When women cheat, it’s more of an emotional thing. A man who is more attentive, and gives her more attention has a higher sex appeal than her husband or boyfriend. Therefore, receiving the love and attention that she needs causes her to become more aroused than normal which causes the volume of

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You better watch your fuckin man. Don’t leave him around me, if you do your best bet he’ll be home around three. I’m the bitch that your momma warned you not to leave your man around, but you didn’t listen; now in my bed he’ll be found. You thought you were better than me bragging, and boasting like you have the cream of the crop. But tonight your man will be on top. Now what bitch? The joke is on you. You thought you had a nigga that was going be true. Don’t leave your man around me bitch cause I’ll make him fall in love; his dick fits my pussy just like a hand in a glove. Throwing him in my face you did out of spite, if he’s your man now, he wasn’t last night.

     Hey ladies, so I'm going to spill the beans a little. I thought I would start posting so I'm going to make this first official post talking a little about me. I'm not going to go deep in depth about my experiences but I'm going to shine a little light on what I've been going through.      For starters a I am BBBW (big beautiful black woman). I'm just an around the way girl from the streets of NP (North Philly). Believe me when I tell you that I've had my times of struggles and strife, and still do. I am slowly but surely building my brand its going to take me some time but I'm determined to do this for me. I am so determined to have my own and work for me that is my ultimate dream. I cant stop thinking about it, being an entrepreneur is running through my veins and I am so determined to build my brand.      I've been through so much mentally I'm surprised that i am still here (I'll get into that later). I'm going to enjoy spilling

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