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What’s A Deal Breaker For You?

What’s the last straw, nail that sealed the coffin shut, or the straw that broke the camel's back in a relationship for you?? If you have met me 20 years ago, you would have said "that bitch is crazy." I have put up with so much bullshit in my relationships it is pathetic. As the years went by, I’ve gotten older, and developed  less tolerance for bullshit and aggravation.

I came up with 10 deal breakers when in a relationship, or just meeting a new man

1.     Starting off the relationship with a lie: I cannot stand a man who cannot tell the truth. If he lies about the little things, what else is he hiding?
2.     Jobless: Now I know our economy is a piece of shit, but a man with no job is like oil to my water, we won’t mix. I am not signing up to help him financially in any way. I am not about to have a man sponge off of me point, blank, period.
3.     Cheating:A man who's wife or girlfriend left him because he cheated. This is a red flag. If he cheated on her chances are he's going to cheat on you.
4.     Stupidity: I absolutely cannot stand a stupid ass man. Stupid men can be a danger to a woman.
5.     Shade: When you meet your man's friends, peep the kind of people that he spends his time with. If he has a circle of shady friends that are up to no good, chances are that he's no good.
6.     Mommy: If he doesn't treat his mother right, chances are he wont treat you right. If you have a man with mommy issues, save yourself the trouble, and keep it moving.
7.     Selfishness: If you ask your man for something, and he sucks his teeth, and blows out his breath with an attitude, and doesn't give you what you ask for, kick his ass to the curb. Or if you ask for a specific thing and he doesn't want to give it to you, and he suggest that he wants something or that you do what he wants instead, tell his ass to get to fucking stepping.
8.     Fingernails: I hate to see men with fingernails. Its fucking gay, and I find it utterly disgusting.
9.     Skinny Jeans: Tight ass, ball busting jeans are a no no. No bitch ass muthafuckas in my camp.
10. Personal Hygiene and Teeth: He has to keep his ass, balls, and teeth up to par.
11. Disrespectful: Do not accept any type of disrespect from him. One of the worst things for a woman is a  disrespectful man.
12. Irresponsible: a little mistake here and there is OK but when he cannot take care of the things that he should be able to take care of then there is a problem. If he lies about paying bills, if he is not able to pay his rent or anything else that is important than he needs to go.
These are my personal deal breakers for meeting a new man, or relationship. What are yours?


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