As a woman I have always asked myself why girls and women are so
catty and jealous of one another. I think it is in our nature to be
competitive. I know when I started high school, I was never considered the
“pretty one” in fact I was always over shadowed by the “prettier girls”.
When I saw pretty girls, or even girls that dressed better than I
did, I automatically disliked them. I never acted out my “hateration” because I
was very soft spoken, but I secretly loathed them. I have always had a soft
heart so I was never vicious with my jealously. When the green eyed monster
rears its ugly head, women can become very viscous and spiteful.
As I have gotten older, I have learned to control this green eyed
monster. My jealousy towards other women is better controlled now, than when I
was younger. I have developed a system to tame the green eyed enemy. If you
have a strong mind, this should work for you.
THE GREEN EYED MONSTER
1. Stop worrying about what someone else has. Be thankful for what
you have.
2. Stop hating: It’s ok to give a woman her props if she deserves
it. Second, you know her glory but you don’t know her story. You have no idea
what she has been through to accomplish her success. Until you have walked in
her shoes, you really don’t know her story.
3. Know your situation can always be worse: Always know that
someone, somewhere, would love to be in your shoes, and have what you have
because they are unfortunate.
4. Know that everything is not as it seems: Just because she looks
like she is living the glamorous life on the outside, does not mean that she is
truly happy. We never know what is really going on in someone else’s life.
REASONS WHY WOMEN ARE CATTY OF EACH OTHER
1. Women are catty towards one another mainly because of jealousy.
Most of that jealousy comes from looks. Women strive to be beautiful, when they
see a naturally beautiful woman it makes them insecure, and angry. The strange
thing about jealousy and women is that jealous women are usually the pretty
ones.
2. Inferiority: Because many jealous women are beautiful, most of
them are hostile because attention is being taken away from them, and directed
to a woman of “lesser value”.
3. Men: I find this to happen often between females whether they
are mother and daughter, cousins, friends, or sisters. Many women sleep with
each other’s men not necessarily because she wants him or he’s fine, but out of
spite, jealousy, and wanting to walk in her shoes.
MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
Years ago I used to work at a McDonalds. I’ve always had long
finger nails since I was 15 yrs old. When I first got hired, I knew I was the
bomb with my long curvaceous fluorescent designed nails. You couldn’t tell me
ANYTHING! The hiring manager (male) hired me on the spot; he didn’t have a
problem with my appearance or anything. When the shift supervisor (female) came
in, the first thing I thought was Shirley from What’s Happening, because that’s
who she looked like. She had an afro, and a small beard growing out of the side
of her neck (this is the absolute truth). The first thing she said to me was
“you got to get rid of those nails.” I’m thinking” Bitch you’re just mad because
you’re ugly.” I went to the
nail salon and got my nails cut down a lot from what I was used to. About six
months later, my nails grew back longer. This woman looks at my nails and says
“your nails keep getting longer and longer. I’m going to ask you to quit.” How
the hell are you going to ask someone to quit their job? I’ll have more respect
for you if you’d just fire me. Eventually she got transferred to another store,
and I moved on to another job.
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