What’s the last straw, nail that sealed the coffin shut, or the straw that broke the camel's back in a relationship for you?? If you have met me 20 years ago, you would have said "that bitch is crazy." I have put up with so much bullshit in my relationships it is pathetic. As the years went by, I’ve gotten older, and developed less tolerance for bullshit and aggravation. I came up with 10 deal breakers when in a relationship, or just meeting a new man 1. Starting off the relationship with a lie: I cannot stand a man who cannot tell the truth. If he lies about the little things, what else is he hiding? 2. Jobless: Now I know our economy is a piece of shit, but a man with no job is like oil to my water, we won’t mix. I am not signing up to help him financially in any way. I am not about to have a man sponge off of me point, blank, period. 3. Cheating:A man who's wife or girlfriend left him because he cheated. This is a red flag. If he cheate
I know when your woman’s intuition kicks in; something about your man doesn’t feel right. You feel the burn in the pit of your stomach. Something is telling you that the cold hand of infidelity is wrapped around your man’s dick. However, feeling and knowing are two different things. When you receive the confirmation that your man is cheating, or you catch him in the act, the devastation slams you on the head like a sledge hammer. You’re plagued with all kinds of emotion, your heart becomes the play ground for tug of war. You don’t know what way to go. Your first reaction is to go after the other woman. This is where you go wrong. Going after the other woman will not solve the problem. What You Should (DO) 1. When you are absolutely sure that he is cheating, I know you’re going to hit the roof. But don’t fear. Try to remain calm, and clear your mind, and get your thoughts together. 2. Pack you things and go to a friend’s or a relative’s house for a while so that you can put thi